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Cyber-Stalking ConferenceDarren AmblerNov-Ques Answers

Cyber-Stalking ConferenceDarren AmblerNov-Ques  Answers
Cyber-Stalking ConferenceDarren AmblerNov-Ques Answers
Report #: 11520 - 0 Comments
Date Reported: Thursday, November 18, 2021
Status: Active and Ongoing
Severity: High - Cyberstalking
Primary Weapon: Investigative Services
Specific Location: Camden/Burlington/ Mercer Counties
City/Local Area: NJ suburbs of NYC
State/Territory: New Jersey
Region: United States

(Posted)--November 18,2021

Time: 02:26--PM.--EST:

Re: Cyber-Stalking Conference- Tuesday 11/16/21...

Time: 07:00--PM.--10:00--PM.

Posted by: Evelyn Squires--Secretary--Agent/ Pearson-

Room Capacity: 260 Persons.

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Thank you to all those who attended the Nov 16th Conference. It proved by attendance to be another successful evening, the room was filled to capacity. Once again below are random questions and answered from participants that couldn't ask these questions at the most recent conference due to time constraints. These questions were left on the intake desk after the last conference. In addition, the remaining questions were selected through e-mail inquiries that those in attendance e-mailed to the speakers within 24 hours after the close of the November 16, Cyber-Stalking Conference.

Summary of introduction speech given by Speaker which took place at the beginning of Conference and lasted approximately 18 minutes.

Ladies & Gentleman thank you again for your interest and continued support for this very important cause. Halfway thru this meeting Melody will be passing copies of the letter from the Congressman that we received praising our efforts and hard work. Anyone in attendance this evening will have the opportunity to read this letter before the close of tonight's conference.

I appreciate all questions and comments I only ask that you keep the focus of your questions/inquiries on material that has been covered. Thank you.

The person who asked if I attended Private/Catholic School--the answer is "YES". I attended 8 years Catholic Grade School as well as Four {4} years Catholic High School. In addition, I attended a Four {4} year Private College outside of New York City. Within 3 years of Graduating, I was accepted at NYU. Eventually, I obtained my Masters from NYU.

My wife and I resided in Manhattan for 8 years after we were Married. We both worked full time for 6 years until our first child was born. By the time our second child was born, we moved back to New Jersey when he was about 3. I had Graduated College in May 1997 and married my wife three months later on Sept 26, 1997. I had turned 22 six days before the Wedding. That is young but I wanted to be on my own with the women I Love. It was the correct decision waiting 6 years before starting a family. Husband and wife need sufficient time together before the children come along. No, my wife and I didn't live together before getting married for many reasons. I guess living a somewhat sheltered but simple life, there was a great I had to learn about "Life" and the 'Real World". I did learn that the world has some great people in it. However, there are people that try to harm others.

Yes- I have two children both away at college. My wife and I are trying to adjust to the Empty Nest Syndrome. It is certainly different without the children being home. I don't mind sharing some things about my personal life with you guys. However, if I ever seem vague about discussing personal issues please don't be offended. I try to be as personable as I can. However, I am somewhat private when it comes to personal matters. You guys have made these conferences a success so far.

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QUESTIONS & ANSWERS:

QUESTION: Hi from Joyce--What are the penalties if found guilty of cyber bullying? Thanks.

ANSWER--EACH CASE IS DIFFERENT/ DEPENDS ON JURISDICTION--THE JUDGE--THE DEFENDANT'S BACKGROUND AND THE SERIOUSNESS OF THEIR STALKING. IN MY CASE, MY STALKERS ACTIONS WERE DELIBERATE, NASTY, CONTINUOUS {3 months} AND HE HAD A DEFINITE AGENDA. NO REMORSE AT ALL. FIRST CONVICTION-GETS YOU A FELONY RECORD AND 3-6 MONTHS JAIL. THAT IS STANDARD.

QUESTION: From Liz--Yes I did notice at times when you discussed your stalker and his cruel actions, that you do seem to express sadness or possibly anger, how long did it take before you got over the hurt, betrayal and anger he demonstrated toward you?

ANSWER--NO EMOTION ANY MORE--WHEN IT FIRST HAPPENED I WAS HURT AND FELT BETRAYED. AFTER ABOUT 3 MONTHS I PUT THE HURT ASIDE AND I TOUGHENED UP. I WANTED TO FIGHT BACK AND PUT MR AMBLER IN HIS PLACE. I KNOW HE HAS NO REMORSE AND HE COULD CARE LESS ABOUT ME. THEREFORE--I ADOPTED THE SAME ATTITUDE TOWARD HIM. AFTER ALL HE PUT ME THROUGH, I FEEL HE IS VERY SICK, DISILLUSIONED AND SO WAY OUT THERE IT'S NOT WORTH DISCUSSING--I'D SAY MR. AMBLER IS SO LOST AND HOPELESS. NEXT QUES?

QUESTION: Yes, I am Josh from Marlboro, NJ. We have a stalking investigation underway in our place of business. We have two attorney's, a computer guy and the Police in our vicinity were helpful. Do I as the VP of the company have a choice weather I wish to prosecute and take the case to the next level. Thanks?

ANSWER--I AM NOT SURE HOW TO ANSWER YOU WITHOUT MORE DETAIL? WHO WAS CYBER-STALKED? HOW DID THE POLICE BECOME INVOLVED? HOW FAR ALONG IS THE INVESTIGATION? I AM ASSUMING YOU WANT PUNISHMENT AGAINST THE GUILTY PARTY? I WILL SEND YOU AN EMAIL ADDRESS THAT YOU CAN SEND YOUR INQUIRY TO A TEAM MEMBER FOR MORE ANALYSIS?

QUESTION: From Tom--Do you think Mr. Ambler knew he was cyber stalking you and was violating law? He must have been on something strong to have the balls to file a complaint against you when he was clearly the bully and harasser? Unless he is so insane that he can't recognize he was wrong and he clearly harassed you and committed a class c felony?

ANSWER--I HAD A SIMILAR QUES BACK IN JULY. MR AMBLER ISN'T NORMAL. NO--I DOUBT HE REALIZED HE WAS COMMITTING A FELONY--WHICH IS BESIDE THE POINT. YOU REALLY HAVE TO KNOW HIM TO UNDERSTAND HIS ABNORMAL THOUGHT PROCESS. HE LIVES IN HIS OWN WORLD AND DOESN'T CARE WHO HE HURTS. I KNOW HE NEVER FELT BADLY ABOUT THE WAY HE TREATED ME. PEOPLE LIKE THIS MUST BE REMOVED FROM A PERSONS LIFE. HE HAS MANY ISSUES, CAN'T BE TRUSTED AND HE IS NOTHING BUT AGGRAVATION AND TROUBLE WITH A CAPITAL "T". HIS EX WIFE AND I DISCUSSED HIM MANY TIMES.

QUESTION--Mike G--Do Abuse reports have a strong impact on how Internet providers handle accounts of Internet stalkers/abusers.

ANSWER--YES AND NO--ONE ABUSE REPORT GETS FILED WITH THE CUSTOMER ACCT INFO/EX-COMCAST/VERIZON. ONE REPORT NOT A BIG DEAL. THREE REPORTS WITHIN A YEAR CAN FORCE THE INTERNET PROVIDER TO TERMINATE SERVICE INDEFINITELY. IT'S CALLED THE IP-ISP ABUSE REPORT-16-A.

QUESTION: From Jeannie---IF A CYBER BULLY GOES TO COURT AND ADMITS GUILT AND MAKES A SINCERE APOLOGY WILL THE JUDGE DISMISS THE CASE?

ANSWER--GOOD QUES--IN ALL HONESTY, I NEVER HEARD THAT HAPPENING. HOWEVER, I GUESS ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT A JUDGE WOULD DO? I GUESS IF IT EVER HAPPENS WE WILL FIND OUT.

QUESTION: Johanna- from Greens-burg-PA--First, good friends are hard to come by. this guy threw away a good guy and friend from what I've read and observed. It's all his loss. Some day this ass will regret his behavior, he will end up all alone. He sounds raunchy, mean selfish and waked out! i knew someone like this guy, they called him waked out- space cadet. he will end up in jail some day. they always do.

ANSWER--I FAIL TO SEE A QUESTION? THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT.


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