Date Posted: April 4, 2023:
Posted by: Marsh & Associates (Ellen Kilbride-Secretary):
Re: Cyber-Conference/ Minutes: Transcript:
Location: Holiday Inn/ Cherry Hill NJ:
Time: 07:30-PM- 10:00-PM:
Masks: Optional. {special seating arrangement}.
Discussion: General Cyber Crime topics & Discussion of Book published by regular speaker {Pat R}:
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Speakers this evening:Pat R/ Joe M:
Opening: 30 minute discussion by Joe M- Cyber-stalking & the Law/ How to protect our young from Cyber-bullies:
*Reinforcing to audience that Cyber-Stalking is a FELONY crime that carries serious ramifications (Jail & Court imposed fines). Even first time offenders receive jail time. The courts have little tolerence for Cyber-bullies and anyone comitting Internet crimes.
*Signs that you may be a victim of a Cyber-Stalker.
*How to react (steps to take once you discover you are being stalked).
Short 15 minute Question's from audience members:
Part 02/ Discussion of Speaker (Pat R) Book:
*Questions from audience members regarding book:
Pat R/ Brief discussion of his 2016 Cyber-Stalking ordeal & what prompted him to publish his book (Pat R has a second book in the works, expexted to be published by October 2023).
All information on Pat book inc Title, where to purchase etc..may be obtained by contacting Ellen Kilbride (Marsh & Assoc): Title of book is not listed on this site due to advertising rights & restrictions.
*QUESTIONS &ANSWERS FROM AUDIENCE:
1). QUESTION- Hi I am Jan/ Did you pursue your cyber bully immediately-or did someone encourage or suggest to you to take legal action:
ANSWER: MY WIFE IS ENCOURAGING ABOUT MOST THINGS, INCLUDING ISSUE. I WANTED MR. AMBLER OUT OF MY LIFE. HOWEVER, I DID FEEL THAT HE DESERVED PUNISHMENT. MR. AMBLER SEEMED TO TAKE THE POSITION THAT HE WAS ABOVE THE LAW.
2). QUESTION- My name is Lauren/I read the book and saw your appearance on Fox. They were both well done. You said in the book that your stalker (Mr Ambler)- pretended to be a recovering addict and alcoholic? You didn't believe his claim i am assuming? Can you elaborate? Thank you.
ANSWER- AFTER THE STALKING INCIDENT-I LEARNED A GREAT DEAL OF UNFLATTERING THINGS ABOUT MR. AMBLER. BASED ON HIS PAST BEHAVIORS AND THE MANY LIES HE TOLD ME, I NOW BELIEVE THAT HE NEVER COMPLETELY STOPPED DRUGS AND BOOZE. MR. AMBLER USED TO GO TO BARS WITH PEOPLE HE WORKED WITH. I HAVE NO DOUBT THAT MR AMBLER DRANK ALCOHOL WHEN HE WENT OUT WITH THESE PEOPLE. JUST ANOTHER LIE IN MR AMBLER'S DOUBLE FANTASY LIFE. ALSO BELIEVE DRUGS FUELED MR. AMBLER'S ALREADY BAZAAR AND ARROGANT BEHAVIORS.
QUESTION: I am Mark an attorney in Tinton Falls NJ. I must say it's an excellent book. Very professional and detailed. I admire your drive to fight back and put this lunatic in his place. Even though you didn't prosecute, you did succeed in getting your stalker banned from Facebook. You also succeeded in publishing your incident in a book as well as on the Internet. It is very easy for the public to find out Ambler is a cyber bully among other things. I feel you are the winner in this case.
ANSWER- THANK YOU MARK. I APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENTS AND ANALYSIS OF MY BOOK.
QUESTION- Hi my name is Alyssia- Obviously your stalker is a screwed up person, based not only on this incident but other outrageous , immoral and illegal things he did, in which I read about on many on line Internet sites. Didn't you have any idea before your falling out , that he was a screwed up mental case?
ANSWER--I ALWAYS FELT MR. AMBLER WAS STRANGE AND A BIT ANTI SOCIAL. HOWEVER, I NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD TURN ON ME THE VICIOUS WAY IN WHICH HE DID.
MR. AMBLER IS A SELF-CENTERED MENTAL CASE THAT CARES ABOUT HIMSELF PERIOD. DARREN AMBLER IN MY OPINION WOULD BACK STAB HIS OWN MOTHER IF IT WAS BENEFICIAL TO HIMSELF. HE WAS LIVING WITH HIS MOTHER FOLLOWING HIS SEPARATION IN 2014. HE WAS NOT PAYING HIS MOTHER A DIME FOR LIVING THERE. MR. AMBLER WAS MAKING GOOD MONEY AT THE TIME. HIS MOTHER CALLED ME AND ASKED ME TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT GIVING HER SOME MONEY FOR LIVING WITH HER. JUST THIS INCIDENT PROVED TO ME AND OTHERS THAT MR. AMBLER IS SELFISH, HAS NO CHARACHTER OR BREEDING . IT ALSO DEMONSTRATES HOW CHEAP AND UNCARING HE REALLY IS. HE IS ONLY PERSON I EVER MET THAT SHOWS NO FEELING OR CARE ABOUT ANYONE ELSE. IT CONVINCED ME EVEN MORE THAT DARREN AMBLER IS NOT MY TYPE OF PERSON IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM.
QUESTION- Paul here, Excellent book! I like the way that you and your attorney answered questions on your TV interview. Do you have any statistics on how many stalkers were convicted and how much time they served in 2020-2021? Plus-is it true more males are stalkers as opposed to females? Thanks.
ANSWER-THERE ARE SOME STATISTICS IN MY BOOK RELATED TO THIS QUESTION. PART 2 OF YOUR QUES? YES RESEARCH AND STATS PROVE MORE MEN CYBER STALK THAN WOMEN DO.
QUESTION- Hello my name is Caroline/ ques is? Did you ever hear from your cyber bully after your case was resolved? You said in the book that even though Mr. Ambler is a compulsive liar that he never denied cyber stalking you on Facebook? why do you feel Mr Ambler never denied stalking you?
ANSWER- DARREN AMBLER WOULD NEVER CONTACT ME. I THINK IF I WERE HIM I WOULD STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM ME THAT HE COULD GET. AS FAR DARREN AMBLER NEVER DENYING THE STALKING.
FIRST- HE NEVER ADMITTED IT-BUT NEVER DENIED IT EITHER. MR. AMBLER KEPT SILENT ON THE ISSUE. HE DIDN'T HAVE TO ADMIT IT. EVERYONE KNOWS MR AMBLER IS A CYBER STALKER AND A LOT OF OTHER THINGS THAT I WON'T MENTION. AN ABUNDANCE OF INDISPUTABLE PROOF EXISTS. MUCH OF THE PROOF WAS PUBLISHED ON AT LEAST 3 INTERNET FORUM WEB SITES. IF MR. AMBLER DENIED STALKING, THE PROOF WOULD PROVE HIM A LIAR. THE EVIDENCE IS UNDENIABLE. IT WOULD BE A WASTE OF TIME FOR MR AMBLER TO DENY IT AT THIS POINT IN TIME. DARREN AMBLER MUST LIVE WITH HIS BAD DECISIONS.
QUESTION: Hello I'm Joyce/ ques? I did read your book and I saw it published here that Darren Ambler originally summoned you to court? First of all--This guy is a psycho and has a lot of nerve taking you to court after he stalked and harassed you. What did you think when he initially filed a complaint and summoned you to court?
ANSWER--EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID THAT MR. AMBLER IS A PSYCHO AND HAS NERVE. REMEMBER HE ISN'T NORMAL. DARREN AMBLER LIVES IN HIS OWN WORLD. IN HIS ABNORMAL MIND HE DOES NOTHING WRONG. I WASN'T SHOCKED HE FILED A COMPLAINT. I REALIZED THEN TO FIGHT BACK AND PUT THIS SICK CREEP IN HIS PLACE. WITH ENCOURAGEMENT FROM MY WIFE AND AN EXCELLENT ATTORNEY MR AMBLER WAS PUT IN HIS PLACE. YOU HAVE TO INVOLVE THE LAW WHEN DEALING WITH SOMEONE LIKE MR. AMBLER. TO THIS DAY, I STILL HAVE THOSE THAT TELL ME I SHOULD HAVE WENT THROUGH WITH THE CASE AND PROSECUTED HIM. IN THE END I FEEL LIKE 'THE WINNER'. DON'T ATTEMPT TO REASON WITH A PSYCHO STALKER-IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. PLUS-THEY CAN NOT BE TRUSTED. HIRE A COMPETENT ATTORNEY.
*End of Q & A session...........end of minutes..4/04/23: