Marsh & Assoc
Questions & answers segment
From February 2023 Cyber-Conference meeting:
Posted by: Carol Sanger {Secretary/Marsh & Assoc}:
Location: Central NJ:
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QUESTION: Hi i am Cindy from Upper Darby PA-question for Jon W...Did you have any reservations or second thoughts about taking your stalker to court?
ANSWER: (FROM JON) -NO NOT AT ALL. HE CAUSED MY FAMILY AND I GREAT STRESS FOR A LONG TIME. I HAVE NO REGRETS AND I AM GLAD THE JUDICIAL SYSTEM WORKED IN OUR FAVOR.
QUESTION: For the former prosecutor Evelyn/ my name is Doris-my question is-did you ever lose a Cyber Stalking case during your tenure as a prosecutor? and/what are you doing now?
ANSWER: (FROM EVELYN)- Thank you for the question. NO-we won every case we tried. Keep in mind, by the time a cyber crime case makes it to the prosecutor sufficient evidence exists. If the evidence did not exist or it couldn't be obtained, it wouldn't be in the hands of the prosecutor. NOW-I am a private practice attorney within the Scarsdale New York area. My goal is to help people not get rich off of them.
QUESTION: Ques for Pat. My name is Doug, i am an attorney in Tinton Falls NJ. Read your book-Excellent. Does your stalker know you wrote a book about your ordeal? Also, was this Daren Ambler ever diagnosed clinically. This dude has serious problems. Thanks.
ANSWER: (FROM PAT ) -UNLESS HE VIEWS THIS WEB-SITE OR HE SAW ME ON THE MORNING SHOW OR FOX NETWORK-THEN HE PROBABLY DOESN'T KNOW I WROTE THE BOOK. HE IS TUNED OUT ANYWAY. YES-I AGREE DARREN HAS SOME SERIOUS ISSUES WITH HIS BRAIN. I KNEW HIM WELL. I DOUBT IF HE EVER GOT HELP OR A CLINICAL DIAGNOSIS. PLUS- DARREN THINKS HE IS NORMAL. FOR THAT REASON ALONE HE WILL PROBABLY NEVER SEEK PSYCHIATRIC HELP. I AM SURE HE BLOCKED THE CYBER STALKING INCIDENT OUT OF HIS MIND. HE HAD A TALENT FOR BLOCKING WRONGFUL ACTS FROM HIS MIND AS IF THEY NEVER TOOK PLACE.
QUESTION: For Evelyn/Hi I am Nancy-Do you feel these convicted stalkers are getting the message? Plus- it's been proven cyber bullies have mental disorders. Why doesn't the court order them to seek psychiatric counseling once they get of jail?
ANSWER: (FROM EVELYN) - GREAT QUES NANCY I WOULD LOVE IF JUDGES WOULD MAKE CONVICTED CYBER BULLIES UNDERGO PSYCHIATRIC THERAPY AS PART OF THEIR PUNISHMENT. HOWEVER, IT'S A MATTER OF ECONOMICS. THE COURTS FEEL JAIL TIME AND FINES ARE SUFFICIENT PUNISHMENT.
QUESTION: Ques for Pat R: Hi my name is Kate, have you seen or run into your stalker since the cyber stalking ordeal? Do you think Mr. Ambler learned a lesson?
ANSWER: (FROM PAT) NO-I' HAVEN'T SEEN MR. AMBLER SINCE COURT IN MAY 2018. MR. AMBLER CAME CLOSE TO GOING TO JAIL. THE EVIDENCE IN MY ATTORNEY'S WORDS WAS 'COMPELLING AND INDISPUTABLE'. NO- I WOULD SAY MR. AMBLER DIDN'T LEARN ANY LESSON.
PEOPLE THAT ARE MESSED UP IN THE HEAD AND DISCONNECTED FROM REALITY ARE NOT CAPABLE OF LEARNING FROM THEIR WRONGS. THEY ARE IN THEIR OWN LITTLE WORLD. THEY BLOCK OUT MANY THINGS VERY EASILY. SOME MAY THINK IT IS SAD THAT MR. AMBLER HAS NO CLUE ABOUT HOW SCREWED UP HE REALLY IS. FRANKLY- I DON'T KNOW HOW HE FUNCTIONS AND I FRANKLY DO NOT CARE. MY LIFE IS SO HAPPY AND CONTENT NOW. MR. AMBLER DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HAPPINESS IS. IN MY OPINION, THIS GUY IS A TOTAL WASTE AND A TOTAL AWKWARD MISFIT.
QUESTION: For Pat/ Hi I am Dawne. I read quite a bit about you cyber bully Ambler on various web sites. He has more problems aside from being a cyber bully. Did his former wife leave him because he was crazy or because of the drugs? or the paid hookers?
ANSWER: ( FROM PAT )-I THINK INITIALLY HIS WIFE JUST COULDN'T STAND HIM. THEY WERE TOTALLY INCOMPATIBLE, SHE DID NOT LOVE HIM AND I HAVE NO DOUBT DARREN DROVE HER CRAZY WITH HIS OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR. I AM SURE HIS ADDICTIONS AND DEMONS WERE A BIG FACTOR TOO. DARREN CLAIMS HE DIDN'T START SCREWING AROUND WITH THESE HOOKERS UNTIL AFTER THEY SEPARATED. I AM NOT SO SURE I BELIEVE THAT.
I DO NOT BELIEVE ANYTHING MR. AMBLER SAYS. THE ONE THING ABOUT MR. AMBLER THAT USED TO REALLY BOTHER ME WAS THAT HE HAD NO SHAME-HE DIDN'T CARE ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE OR WHAT THEY THOUGHT ABOUT HIM. MR. AMBLER HAD RECKLESS BEHAVIOR AND I HAVE NO DOUBT THE CONSEQUENCES WERE SEVERE. HOWEVER, I DON'T THINK HE CARES EITHER WAY.
QUESTION: For Mr. Jon/ I am Tom/ Has your ordeal affected your family long term.
ANSWER: WELL MY WIFE JILL IS CAUTIOUS ON LINE. WE DO KEEP AN EYE ON OUR KIDS WHEN THEY USE THE INTERNET. A PSYCHO CAN EASILY TARGET A TEENAGER AND CYBER STALKING COULD RESULT. TEENS CAN BE NAIVE AND NOT EVEN REALIZE THAT THEY ARE BEING STALKED. TEENS ARE PRIME TARGETS FOR CYBER CREEPS. WE MUST PROTECT THE YOUNG FROM FALLING VICTIM TO AN ON LINE PREDATOR/ STALKER.
QUESTION: From Carolyn/ Ques for the entire panel-What can we do as a society to fight Cyber Stalkers and their illegal activities? Thank you.
ANSWER: FROM EVELYN *(FORMER PROSECUTOR)- JUST STAY ALERT/REPORT SUSPICIOUS ON LINE ACTIVITY IMMEDIATELY. BEGIN BY FILING A POLICE REPORT WITHIN YOUR LOCAL MUNICIPALITY. WE CAN FIGHT THE STALKERS AND WIN IF WE FOLLOW PROCEDURE.